This post was drafted while I was watching #engkauyangkupanggilibu Ariani Mother's Day campaign. I rarely take photos with my mum. But I do have many photos with her as a kid. I have always talk about my dad. But behind the scene, my mum is the person who make sure that everything in the house run smoothly. From preparing our meals to sending...Read More

I often forget that July is a special month for the 2 most important person in my life. It's the birthday of my dad and Juan. Last year, I forgot Juan's birthday and remembered only after about 2 weeks  -___-' . He gave me a black face for the whole week and I had to hear him ungkit for the next few weeks...Read More

So I was invited by my Communication team in my company to contribute a short article on how is it like to be born and raised in a multicultural family background. To be honest, it was something that I have been waiting throughout my working experience to write something like this. Well, growing up in a family of mix cultural background is no...Read More

I was away a few weekends ago with my parents. We traveled down south to Muar to visit my sister cause my dad misses her *but he was in denial*. I had the chance to step into her college and had the experience of how it looks like to be in med school *grine*. I wanted to be a doctor since I was...Read More

When you were young, you dream of someone as handsome as Brad Pitt to be the love of your life until you enter adulthood. Snap!!! By then you realize that handsome can't help you with the house chore, washing the dishes, do the laundry, cleaning your baby's poop. Well, looks are just fantasy we put our mind into. In real life, that doesn't...Read More

It was easier back then to divide my time between my family and friends. But when I got married, I had to juggle 3 things. Family, Juan and friends. It didn't make much of a different cause Juan is the understanding type where I STILL get to meet my girl friends every once a month. I believe in taking a break from each...Read More

Well, at some point in life you think you've lost your best friend because you used to be on constant meet up and phone calls. But as you grow up, phone calls becomes lesser, let alone a message. A real friend is never lost. When you need them, they'll appear. Just like fairy god mother. The definition of best friend is when you...Read More

I never really have many friends in school. I was too contained in my own that I don't really bother to know what happens in the other classroom or who is the new kid in school. Not until I was in upper secondary school. I started to grow my circle of friends. Compares to my other close friends, I was the only one...Read More

So today is the day where everyone celebrates their mothers.  Everyone make a point to come home, book a restaurant in advance, cheering each other, have a nice meal and the next day, everyone's busy with their own thing Unlike my family and I. As everyone stays in different state, we will normally give my mother a call and wish her 'Happy Mother's...Read More

It's May . It's public holiday . Planning Spending my time on the lappy, discussing our next destination for Aidilfitri. This year, I plan to celebrate Hari Raya a little different. It has been more than 6 years since we last went back to Singapore to celebrate. One of the many reasons, the currency exchange. They're way too high for our liking. I...Read More

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Spent last weekend at my parent's place although it was El Nino season. The weather was like oven. It already baked my skin to darker tone. But I like being tan. Didn't had any plans in mind.  Had dinner with my brother-from-another-mother at a seafood restaurant then drove 1 hour for movie in Alor Star. Yes, it was my idea. Half way through...Read More

It was 7.45 am and I was getting myself ready while listening to the radio. "What has changed when it comes to family dinner?" There was one particular caller. A man. He said that he rarely have time for family dinner and because he stays separately, it gets even harder for him to stop by his parent's place. "I normally have dinner and...Read More

Before I got married to Juan, I had this idea that once a woman is married, she no longer have the freedom to do things solo. It was BEFORE.  Then fast forward to today. I still managed to do things I love either with my friends or alone. There's still a level of freedom I get to enjoy. When you got married, the...Read More

I believe everyone of us are working husbands and working wives. So at times, all you want to do when you get home is put your feet up and not talking to anyone. Well, that include me. As both of us sail in marriage boat, we try to make the relationship more exciting. You know, as years goes by, things become more routine...Read More