You know, once you're married, you have to realized that your priority changes. Especially for the man. You attention swift to another person who, you barely knew in your life. Well, it's a risk but everything comes with it. It's a circle of life.Life can be....strange at time. How the universe work, you can't question. 

Well, ever since I got married, there are tonnes of things to plan. Though we have been married for 2 months now, it's time to plan for our retirement, insurance coverage, kids (if you're now planning for one), in case anything happens to you. Spreading out whatever possibilities or emergencies that might occur in the long run. With all cost is rising, you have to be watchful on what you spend. I'm trying to curb the 'oh-that-purse-is-pretty' in me. It's hard, woman. It is. So every time when I asked Juan to buy me some thing, he'll go like 'Do you need this?'. I'll be like walking away. Potong stim at first but eventually I realized how important it is to not spend unnecessarily although my dad has been trying to teach me millions of times but half fail. Hahaha.

As far as I'm concern on kids, me and Juan decided that we will only have them once we're (practically me) ready. Planning a kid is not like planning a vacation where you can cancel at a very last minute. Once it starts, it'll never stops.

People kept questioning me on when I plan to have one consider that my age is reaching the big 3-0 soon. That it'll be hard for me to have one as I get older. They'll give the worst scenario they can think of, convincing me that having a baby at a later age can cause you other complications. It doesn't hurt me. Annoying question to be exact. I know their intention is good. But, is there a need to ask that question? Seriously?. 

Our society has this thing where, once you get married, you need to have kid asap. If you do not have one, it might mean that either one of you is incapable. Yes, it happens but not to everyone. People have different sets of mindset. Not that both of us don't want to have kids but it's not the right time yet.

The idea of having small little creatures running around the house has not reach my head yet. Not wanting to be a zombie the next day due to breastfeeding the night before. Many of my friends said, you'll change your mind when you see your baby, that the regret of having to carry her/him for the past 9 months, all the sleepless night, the vomiting, the cravings flew right out of the window. Well, I can't imagine that yet.

For know, I would like to explore the possibilities with my partner. Do things together in a halal way. Explore the world while we can. Try new things. Eat new food. It's fun. Most important is getting back on track after spending every dime we have on our wedding.

What is a brain aneurysm?

A brain (cerebral) aneurysm is a bulging, weak area in the wall of an artery that supplies blood to the brain. In most cases, a brain aneurysm causes no symptoms and goes unnoticed. In rare cases, the brain aneurysm ruptures, releasing blood into the skull and causing a stroke.

When a brain aneurysm ruptures, the result is called a subarachnoid hemorrhage. Depending on the severity of the hemorrhage, brain damage or death may result.

The most common location for brain aneurysms is in the network of blood vessels at the base of the brain called the circle of Willis.

2 little boots and a newly wed carvings, carved from bars of soap. Creative. A wedding present I got from my cousin-in-law. Decided to use them as a decorative item on my tv rack. The chinaware is also a wedding present I got from one of my colleague. It came in a set of 2.

We had a terrible stay at a hotel on our first night. The booking was done via bookings.com. Apparently, the rooms where refurbished(in the photos) but when we reached, the hotel looked so dull and spooky. At one point it even looked like a prostitution nest. Even the hallway towards our room were dark. The hotel doesn't look welcoming at all and has this bad vibe. The hotel was situated right in the middle of Chow Kit. Right in the middle of bazaars and jams on normal days. The toilet were not clean. With used  shampoo bottles on the floor, baby cockroaches running around. The bed sheet didn't smell good too.

I would highly recommend anyone to spend a night here. Awarded with Outstanding Hotel Partner Award in 2012, I must say this the hotel to stay when you travel to Kuala Lumpur. But do check the rates on bookings.com or agoda.com

We had our shower and all. But before we did, I filled the bath tub with shower gel and water. So there were bubbles in the tub so that Juan could 'rendam' himself for about half and hour. This was supposed to be his post-birthday trip, remember?

Every year, me and my best friend will visit each other's place. But for this year, I feel a little bit special because both of us are married. So I feel extra happy as we get to celebrate among the 4 of us.

Me and Juan had only 3 days to spent in Perlis. The 2nd night of Aidilfitri, we had a mini gathering with my high school friends from year 2001 batch. I can't believe that most of us are married now. Some with kids. Overall, my raya celebration was a good one.

Spent the first day of Syawal at in-law's place. It was a bit strange for me, waking up on the first day of raya at another place. Not the usual place, my parent's. I was the last one to shower. The rest of the family were at the hall having their lemang and rendang. 

After that, we had our salam session where all of us seek for forgiveness from the elders. Things are done differently here. Well, not all family are the same.

That evening, we drove back to Perlis. My parent's side. Spent a good 3 days. Had good food and ordered another pot of rendang to bring back to Penang (still had that in my freezer -__-) 

As I have mentioned that we had a horrible stay on our first night in KL here that we decided to check out the next day and stayed at another hotel. The first hotel that we took was situated right in the middle of Chow Kit road. The busiest street you can think of. Which was the wrong thing for me to do as I handle the itinerary for our holiday. Without checking out the hotel location, I just booked it because the price was cheap.

The next day after we checked out, we put our luggage in the car and decided to take the public transport to Times Square. Wanted to kill time before checking in to another hotel that we have booked the night before. It was around 10.30am. The weren't many cars on the street because it was only the 6th day of raya. So most city people are still on holiday. The mall was not crowded either like how it was on an ordinary Saturday. So it was easy for us to move around. Most importantly the traffic was very pleasant.

The last public transport that I took was around 6 years ago?? I guess. During my convocation trip. The public transport looked much better and cleaner compared to how it was previously. Efficient wise? Not really as I have to wait slightly longer.