The one thing that irritates a pregnant lady is when people start to comment everything about you and your to-be-born baby. I can't run from that too for the past 9 months. Don't take it too personally cause apparently when you're pregnant, everyone around you are doctors -__-'. So layankan aje. The common thing people say to you:

You can't be pregnant 7 months. You belly is too small.
It means that your tummy is too small if you're 7 months pregnant. It all comes back to the size of the mother herself. Like me, I'm a petite size so definitely my stomach won't be as bulgy as some pregnant mothers.

Eh, you baby underweight la. Nanti kena masuk incubator
For as long as your gynae confirm that the baby weight is okay. Don't take too serious on what people comment on that part. They're not trained gynae. Hospital will not simply put your baby into incubators unless they're premature babies.

Oh baby girl. Kalau anak first baby boy, best la.
Firstly, they're not God so they can't decide if they wanna give you a baby boy or a girl. Secondly, for as long as your baby is healthy, alhamdulillah it is. With so many diseases nowadays, you should be grateful that you baby is in good shape. Don't be sad about it cause some people were not given the opportunity to feel what it is like to have a baby, let alone to be pregnant. So you're one of the chosen one okay.

You got baby boy ar, hhmmm be prepared la
Not all baby boy are 'naughty' or uncontrollable as what people normally tells you. It all boils down on the discipline and upbringing. Babies are born with different character. You decide on how you wanna shape them/ So don't worry about this. If you do things right, everything will turn out a-ok.

Wait la when you have babies. everything also you wanna buy for the baby
IT'S A LIE. It all depends on your nafsu. Like me, I buy what is practical, easy and necessary for me to use as a working mother. For example, I don't buy baby stuffs just because they're cute or colorful or because I 'geram' wanna buy. I buy WHAT IS NEEDED. I don't print money okay so all cost needs to be consider. But I do 'splurge' on hospital. You wanna be comfortable at your most vulnerable time.